Having to be right

Avoid arguing and having to being right about every topic. Often a conversation is not really a discussion. It’s a more of a way to keep a good mood going. No one will be that impressed if you “win” every conversation. Instead just sit back, relax and help keep the good feelings going.

A very good tip when dealing with the customers online eh. :)

Glee,

Seeing the negative and downsides in just about anything.

When you see everything from a negative perspective you quickly punch a hole in your own motivation. You find faults everywhere and problems where there are really none. You cling to details. If you want to find a reason to not do something then that’s no problem. From a negative viewpoint you can find ten reasons every time.

And so very little gets done, you whine to anyone who wants to hear – and many who don’t – about how crappy your job and life is. Which becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy as you create the life that is appropriate considering how think and see your world.

A solution is to realise the limits of a negative perspective. And that your perspective isn’t some kind of 100% true picture of the world. Then try other perspectives. For instance, trying to establish a habit of seeing things in a more positive and optimistic light can be quite useful. In that vein, you may want to try the Positivity Challenge. It's not easy, but if you do the challenge and try to only think positive thoughts for 7 days it can give you an insight in how much your perspective and beliefs changes how you interpret your world. And what results you get.

Glee,

Point to Ponder - February 2010

Whatever goes around, comes around.
Be nice and helpful to people, or at least, don't be nasty to others.

Life is impermanent and empty.
Things constantly change and we are all intertwined and inter-dependent with each other through our actions or inactions.

Glee,
Mell

Operation Beautiful

Scars tell a story,
your inner nerd makes you fun,
And your flaws make you perfect.

You are beautiful!
Love yourself!

:)

2010

Happy Belated New Year 2010 . VADSian welcomed the New Year 2010 with great enthusiasm and excitement. The New Year marks the end of 1 year and the start of the next year. Hoping that the new year 2010 will bring an end to the recession, bring more opportunities, prosperity and luck.